Face the (Low) Challenge
But every now and again we have had either someone stop the session after a couple of minutes / or freak out / or - as today - ask if one of us could give them just five minutes face to face to go through some scores they haven't ever had a session on, even though I know they had the phone session on exactly those scores just a few weeks back.
And in common - it is always people with ultra-low Challenge scores. (<5)
Not terribly surprising when you think about low Challenge. "Face" (in the oriental sense of the giving and receiving of respect / position etc) is extremely important to low Challenge, and it doesn't seem unreasonable to suggest that "face to face" communication protects and promotes "Face" more than talking over the phone.
So - even if you would never consider doing feedback by phone in a billion years, this may have other implications for communication with low Challenge clients, or at least underline the importance of choosing a time and place when you can give them absolute personal attention when there is something important to communicate that is about them.
*And if you wouldn't consider doing feedback over the phone - just have a look at your own Challenge Score. I've just realised that two of the people who told me that doing feedbacks by phone was a weird thing to do were sub-five Challenge scores themselves...
Labels: Challenge, communication
